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Sharon · Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 1:45 am Post subject: Vasectomy

What are you views on these, I have known so many people regret having this done. Its something both of you have to be so sure of.

Mark never wanted children at all, he tried to get one when he was 18, and he was told to piss off

He met me and all thoughts of no children went out the window, he is more desperate for baby #3 than I am

I have always said that what ever children we have by the time I am 35 is all we are having, and he can have the snip then, so we have 4 years

sarah · Moderator Joined: 10 Nov 2007 Posts: 631

i guess its up to the man if he wants it done, its something i wouldnt try to force kevin into as its his body etc, on the other hand if he chose to have it done i dont think i would like it all because what if you change your mind and wnt more kids? you have to go through the whole reversal op, i know someone who had one done recently but they have 5 kids and are both nearing 40, but for me at the moment i wouldnt want him to!!
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Sharon · Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 6:38 pm Post subject:

I think it is mainly up to the man, but you both still need to talk about it.

Reversals are quite hard to do now, and quite often dont work.

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